To the gays who think this, let me ask you something. In fact, there’s a term for this called bottom shaming. A lot of us are rugged and like it outdoorsĭon’t ask me why but there are a lot of gay men in our community who seem to think that all bottoms are effeminate. It’s also one of the manliest things you’ll ever do. If you’ve never chomped down on bark while the guy behind you drives it inside you – I’m here to tell you it’s the next best thing to sliced bread. I’m not ashamed to admit that I like it when a guy tears apart my hole and uses his spit for personal lubricant. Getting topped by a guy in a tent, wooded cabin or over a tree-stump is just fine by me.